I haven’t seen this book in person but, my gosh, it sounds like a great idea. “How to Have Your Second Child First” is destined to be a hit at baby showers everywhere, instructing moms-to-be on how they can relax about fraught topics from birthplans to breastfeeding. As my best friend told me when I had my first baby (she already had two), “When your 1st child picks up a knife, you gasp and grab it from her hand. When your 2nd child picks up a knife, you ask, ‘How sharp is it?'” I assume you will read similar wisdom and experience in this book, too (for example, as shown above, no, you do NOT need to wash the baby’s clothing separately. Throw all the family’s laundry in the same wash. Really, it’s OK). Buy the book for a worried mom-to-be for $18.95 from Spoon Sisters.